Dialogue, Teach, Love

“Accept anyone who is weak in faith, but don’t argue about disputed matters” Romans 14:1 csb

Two neighbors planted gardens side by side. One carefully measured the distance between plants, followed a strict watering schedule, and only used organic compost. The other tossed seeds with less precision, watered as needed, and used store-bought fertilizer. One day, a disagreement broke out—whose method was better? But as the season went on, both gardens produced beautiful vegetables.

Within the Church, there are those who are younger in the faith and those who are seasoned men and women of God. There are different denominations and expressions of orthodoxy. Yet we are all called to make disciples—whether seasoned or not. Especially for the mature believer, there is a clear call to teach, to be patient, and to walk alongside newer Christians with grace.

The Holy Spirit does not desire that we look down on others who may not share the same level of maturity, convictions, or doctrinal understanding that we do. Sometimes, the Lord may lead a believer to abstain from certain movies, music, or foods—while another Christian may not feel convicted about those same things. And that’s okay.

Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 10:23 (CSB), “Everything is permissible,” but not everything is beneficial. “Everything is permissible,” but not everything builds up.”

We are not called to sit in judgment over one another but to walk in love. We’re not meant to be argumentative—especially over non-essentials, things that do not pertain to salvation.

Instead of casting people aside, Paul says, “accept” them. Now, don’t misunderstand this as accepting sin—that’s not what he’s saying. We cannot affirm sinful lifestyles within the Church when Scripture clearly speaks against them. But like the gardeners with different methods, fellow believers may have different ways of living out their faith in Christ or doing church in their communities. That shouldn't cause us to dismiss them or treat them as inferior. In fact, if we respond with arrogance or condescension, that says more about our own heart than it does about theirs.

So, ask questions. Engage in conversation. You might be surprised—you could learn something new. Then take it to the Lord in prayer. Ask if He might be leading you in a similar way. You never know. Our aim should always be to build one another up, helping each other grow in Christ and become more like Jesus.

Agape, Frank